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Unicorns and Glitter

11/3/2011

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Sunday night, while I was laying the girls' Halloween-themed shirts out for the next day, Mirabella sighed, "Mommy, you can't go to work tomorrow; it's Halloween!"  I cringed.  They are no longer in day care, so there would be no party, but I longed for a day spent baking cookies and making crafts.  Her disappointment was doing nothing to relieve my guilt.
 
I got in early Monday, set up the cupcake tower recycled from Saturday's "carvinal" in the break room for my overworked colleagues, and received a call back from our pediatrician that they wanted to see Emerie to check out her eye.  I had left them a message before they opened explaining that my daughter had poked herself with a wand (it took a lot of restraint not to call it a "magic" wand on the voicemail).  So an hour after I arrived, I raced home to retrieve Emerie who was, by all accounts, perfectly fine.  We got her checked out anyway, and by the time I got home I just couldn't go back in.  I put a few hours of work in during nap time and took the rest of the day to bake whole wheat sugar cookies and color--  to be, as Daniel reprimands me for calling it, a real mom.
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It was our first year in a neighborhood and with children old enough to warrant trick-or-treating.  I am not sure who was most excited.  I bundled the girls in so many layers of cotton and polyester fleece under their costumes that Daniel called Emerie The Christmas Story.  I safety pinned Emerie's unicorn hood to her so tightly that she complained it was "stuuuuck" all night, but she kept it on.  I snapped photos on our way out the door, on the porch, in the driveway, and Mirabella sighed.  I could see into the future for a moment; I would be the annoying mom trying to capture every memory.  I can't be sure whether it was aloud, but I might have said, "my heart is bursting."  Emerie started spontaneously clapping.  "I happy!" she said.  I almost couldn't take it.

We thought we would be able to leave Emerie in the stroller, but she would not have it.  Several houses in she pleaded to go up to the door.  She doesn't really eat candy, but she understood this was an enterprise she wanted to be a part of.

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We stayed out for about an hour and a half before winding back through the neighborhood heavy laden with candy and now two children on the stroller.  At the last house, our neighbors declared, "We should have had a costume contest.  You girls would have won."

"Mommy!" Mirabella cried, "Did you hear that?  We winned!" 

I said, "Mirabella, did you have a good time trick-or-treating?"

"Yes!" she said, "And we winned!"

I didn't realize until later that night, while compiling photos into an online album for the grandparents, that I might have tried to pack too much specialness into one night.  After trick-or-treating, we made "mummies" (pigs in a blanket), decorated our festive cookies, then had a bonfire in our backyard.  It was a lot.  And though Mirabella did deem it her "most favoritest night of all," I can't say I did it only to make memories for her and Emerie. Of course I want their childhood to be happy and warm and full of homemade fun; I want them to associate Daniel and me with a feeling of home.  But nights like that remind me that I would do almost anything to slow it all down; to keep them small and hold them just a little longer.

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John Hallis
11/4/2011 06:34:07 am

........but, they don't stay small, at all. They keep growing rapidly in attitude,independence and capability; until one day they are amazing parents trying to hold back their own hard-charging little people from growing up too fast, and thus leaving their proud parents in the dust!Great job and great read!

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